Disclaimer: This post was originally posted by Full Member, LaurainFL. This user is located in Zone 8b/9a, NW Florida. This was originally posted on Marhc 18, 2013.The timing problem is why I grafted mine.
However, after I got started grafting, I found an outfit in California that will ship grafted tomatoes, peppers, and eggplants as early as late January:
http://www.gardenlife.com/store/SuperNaturals-Grafted-Vegetables/Right now they are only showing shipping dates of March 25 or later, but I guess that is becuase the earlier dates have passed already. When I was there looking in early January, they had the earlier shipping dates posted. So maybe bookmark them and check over the winter for next year?
Disclaimer: I have NO EXPERIENCE ordering from these folks. I just found them on a web search. Do your own research on them/order at your own risk.
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As to grafting your own, it takes a steady hand and you cannot rush the healing process, but it's definitely something a home gardener can do. Since this year was my first time, I planted some cheapo seeds to practice on: I grafted cheapo seedlings onto other cheapo seedlings and took them through the healing process before using the expensive rootstock seeds. Even with some practice, plant some extras, just in case. And plant the seeds earlier than usual since you will lose a couple of weeks to grafting shock and healing.